"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok. Yesterday morning I woke up with what had seemed to be a mosquito bite on my right forearm. Theres 2 places, one with that's about a few centimeters and the other one was about an inch long. I've put ice on it, etc... Today it's gotten bigger, it's now about 3 and a half inches long, 2 inches wide on my forearm, swollen. Would you guys know if it's a mosquito bite or a spider bite? Should I go to the doctor? It's red, itching, I haven't felt any pain though, no sickness.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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3 inches long, 2 inches wide, Swollen, Iching... First some kind of anti irritant ointment then see a dermatologist if it isnt better in a day. As Far as I know mosquito and spider bites dont get that big.
 

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that's what I was thinking. But then again I'm also thinkin if I should see a doctor and make sure that it's not anything poisonous, hence having it swell so much, i dunno.
 

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BxPrince24 said:
that's what I was thinking. But then again I'm also thinkin if I should see a doctor and make sure that it's not anything poisonous, hence having it swell so much, i dunno.
Well as long as you dont start to feel sick or light headed 1 day shouldnt hurt.
 

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tomorrow will be the 3rd day of me having it and it hasn't decreased in size, only got larger.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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also, I just noticed, on the smaller one, there are 2 bump heads, positioned parallel to eachother. similar to how a spider's fangs would be. the large one has just one bump head.
 

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BxPrince24 said:
tomorrow will be the 3rd day of me having it and it hasn't decreased in size, only got larger.
This is the thirdday and its only gotten bigger? Now its time to see a doctor.
 
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Yeah either that or tomorrow its going to keep growing and you might end up on the operating table to remove lesions caused by god knows what...
 
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