"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys, I need some advice! I found this site a while ago, it was a revelation, and then I met this woman and went straight back to AFC. She’s 36 and has a long history of mental health problems, despite this I really fell for her big time! I became all needy and clingy and after a few months she dumped me without Evan wanting to talk about it. The thing is she is pregnant with my baby, I know how stupid that is I feel so bad. Anyway we have been talking and I have been showing zero interest in having a relationship with her, I have realised how pathetic I was, but now she is talking about getting back together, she says I am more confident, but she won’t say when, she wants to keep being friends for a while. I don’t know what to do! I don’t want to go out with someone that flaky, but I don’t want to be a weekend dad either. I would really appreciate some insight here.
Jack
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yes listen to the poster above you messed up man. It's not your responsibility to save any one in this world. Your responsibility is to your own happiness and passion. Your 25 and impregnated some lady who is 36. Why were you not wearing a condom and on top of that she should have been on the pill. Anyways that’s all past hopefully after you get granny tested hopefully the kid won’t be yours. If it is yours then deal with it and never settle for less every again in your life. Man if you wanted to have a kid so bad you could have impregnated some beautiful 18 yr old coming in to her prime minus the mental problems. I think before you do anything relationship wise with anyone you need to learn to be content with being alone.
 
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Is it the new fashion to date women with mental problems?

I mean am I missing something?

What is up with the recent spate of people dating mentally unstable women and then asking "duh why didn't it work out?"?

Don't date mentally unstable people it’s just a recipe for disaster.
 
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