"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jack Dark

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Hey guys, I need some advice! I found this site a while ago, it was a revelation, and then I met this woman and went straight back to AFC. She’s 36 and has a long history of mental health problems, despite this I really fell for her big time! I became all needy and clingy and after a few months she dumped me without Evan wanting to talk about it. The thing is she is pregnant with my baby, I know how stupid that is I feel so bad. Anyway we have been talking and I have been showing zero interest in having a relationship with her, I have realised how pathetic I was, but now she is talking about getting back together, she says I am more confident, but she won’t say when, she wants to keep being friends for a while. I don’t know what to do! I don’t want to go out with someone that flaky, but I don’t want to be a weekend dad either. I would really appreciate some insight here.
Jack
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ShyRyder

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yes listen to the poster above you messed up man. It's not your responsibility to save any one in this world. Your responsibility is to your own happiness and passion. Your 25 and impregnated some lady who is 36. Why were you not wearing a condom and on top of that she should have been on the pill. Anyways that’s all past hopefully after you get granny tested hopefully the kid won’t be yours. If it is yours then deal with it and never settle for less every again in your life. Man if you wanted to have a kid so bad you could have impregnated some beautiful 18 yr old coming in to her prime minus the mental problems. I think before you do anything relationship wise with anyone you need to learn to be content with being alone.
 

LeviathanIYG

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Is it the new fashion to date women with mental problems?

I mean am I missing something?

What is up with the recent spate of people dating mentally unstable women and then asking "duh why didn't it work out?"?

Don't date mentally unstable people it’s just a recipe for disaster.
 
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