"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tomorrow most likely im going to hang out with this girl that i've been crushing on and am hoping to at least get a kiss. So what i need to know is if my odds are good. Lastnight we talked for a about 45 mins about just some random stuff, today we talked for about 15. And she says she wants to hangout, tomorrow. So do you think she is pretty interested and my odds are good? We've known eachother for about i think 2 weeks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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your odds are pretty good but don't let her know you a lot or she will lose interest and move on. and hoping for a kiss. don't. do it if the time is right, and yes, u will know when its right, or do the kiss trick from smooth player.
 

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Originally posted by Mctwist4
Yeah your odds are good. Just remember, shes the one who has to win you over. Smooth player did not make the kiss trick. But go for it if your feelin it.
i know he didnt make it, but he did present it to the forum.
 
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