"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FormerWussy

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Hii everyone,

Please advice on the following situation.

I met a hot girl, flirted with her, than went out together for the first date, done everything right till she damn wet.

Since I'm a bit new in this game, I messed up when asked her for the second date. She said that I should call her a day before to comfirm. Unfortunately, I did that just to be told she couldn't make it. I called her another day, she responded very well and we agreed to meet up again on the following day, but supprisingly neither did she turned up nor did she picked up the phone. It's about a month now since I've delibaretly stoped any form of communicaton with her. But the problems are; I will definately meet her again as we live in the same neihbourhood and most importantly, I still want to turn this game around to prove that I'm the real DJ and not Wussy anymore. What should I do? Please suggest.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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undesputable

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if youre a real DJ just move on....no girl is going to think youre a DJ is youre worried about making her think you are one. You will make her think youre one if you just ignore what happen, youre cool with her and just have a nice conversation, but dont persue anything else with her in a romantic level. then is shes sees you with other girls, if she sees that you have dates lined up and youre very busy, than that will give sure signs that youre a DJ. thatll make her feel shes missing out, and that she should have shown up to that date.
 

PVSSY-EATER

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Remember this for the rest of your life.

Women are human beings..........I will treat them as human beings, and see them as human beings, and nothing else.

Haha, theres no need to try and impress a normal human being, now is it? Is she God? God is the only one who judges.

hahah, okay, PVSSY-EATER IS OUT
 

cave dweller

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move

hey,

She is not interested in you.

so,

Move on.........

cave dweller
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FormerWussy

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Thanks everyone for advices. However, I still feel that the girl is is interested with me according to the way she've responded before. I believe that I destroyed my chance when I asked out in improper way. So what do make up of this guys? Does it realy matter? Is she truly not interested at all, or may be she just play hard to get?
 

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If she has displayed this kind of behaviour before she will only do it again further down the line. And ask yourself, would you really want to be with a girl who turned you down because you 'phoned at the wrong time' anyway??

Sorry man, but the advice everyone has given is right. Do yourself a favour and move on.
 
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