this is alittle embarrasing. I usually don't have any problems with girls at all. I have a beautiful girlfriend going on 9 months now which so far the relationship has been very succesful. She isn't the problem. Recently I was at my friends house and he invited some girls over. Kinda a small party. Anyway this really wonderful girl i've known for about a year, who is kinda friends with my girlfriend, was coming on to me like you wouldn't believe so naturally I go ahead and pursue. We go into my friends room and we make out and have alittle foreplay session generally havin some fun. I thought it seemed like she liked it and she was really into me alot.
The next morning I drive her home, she puts her number in my cell, giving good vibes and everythings cool.
Next day I run into her and I'm with my girlfriend. My girl and I are really close. We are generally all over eachother. The girl I cheated with says one or two words to us and takes off barely making eye contact.
Couple days pass I call her to see whats up and she says shes on the phone with a friend. Okay, I say cool, talk to you later and hang up. politely of course.
Next day I instant message her, she makes very light conversation like she doesn't give a f*ck. We talk I asked what she did the other day she said she was at, (we'll call him GuitarMan)'s house, another friend of mine. Apparently they kissed who knows what else. I don't really care, i'm a bigger mack than *guitarman* and I know her and *guitarman* aern't gonna be dating or anything. After a couple minutes of obvious failure online I quit talking to her.
Now every once in a while I see her. It's only been about a week now since I got with her but now she barely acknowleges me.
Now I assume these are some reasons why she won't treat me like she did that night anymore.
A. She doesn't want me to cheat on my girlfriend
B. She likes someone else
C. She lost intrest (how? besides the two listed above)
Really i'm clueless. To tell you the truth it also could be that she's a loser. I don't really know her too well but she seems pretty smart and cool. all help is appreciated, if you have any questions feel free to ask.
The next morning I drive her home, she puts her number in my cell, giving good vibes and everythings cool.
Next day I run into her and I'm with my girlfriend. My girl and I are really close. We are generally all over eachother. The girl I cheated with says one or two words to us and takes off barely making eye contact.
Couple days pass I call her to see whats up and she says shes on the phone with a friend. Okay, I say cool, talk to you later and hang up. politely of course.
Next day I instant message her, she makes very light conversation like she doesn't give a f*ck. We talk I asked what she did the other day she said she was at, (we'll call him GuitarMan)'s house, another friend of mine. Apparently they kissed who knows what else. I don't really care, i'm a bigger mack than *guitarman* and I know her and *guitarman* aern't gonna be dating or anything. After a couple minutes of obvious failure online I quit talking to her.
Now every once in a while I see her. It's only been about a week now since I got with her but now she barely acknowleges me.
Now I assume these are some reasons why she won't treat me like she did that night anymore.
A. She doesn't want me to cheat on my girlfriend
B. She likes someone else
C. She lost intrest (how? besides the two listed above)
Really i'm clueless. To tell you the truth it also could be that she's a loser. I don't really know her too well but she seems pretty smart and cool. all help is appreciated, if you have any questions feel free to ask.
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