"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

help

D

dawg89

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2004
Messages
58
Reaction score
0
dars dis 9 in my class i havent talked to yet could you give me tips on how to talk ta her noe ive shes interested and possibly a number closing? thanx
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

R

RaMar

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 22, 2002
Messages
214
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
California
Two things:
1. Work on your grammer and spelling. You won't get chicks if you talk like your in the 1st grade.
2. Read the DJ Bible
 
W

wh01987

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 23, 2003
Messages
522
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
WA State
instead of english class ebonics 101 YAY
 
D

dawg89

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2004
Messages
58
Reaction score
0
i asked for help not ebonics besides i already did read the bible i still need a little help
 
B

Bombshell

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2004
Messages
105
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Indiana
There are billions of ways to number close a chick dude. Just make eye contact, imediately walk up to her and if you cant think of something unique about her then just say Hi. All you have to do is have a basic convo then end with "hey you seem like your a lot of fun. We should hang out some time." If she doesn't offer her number after that then say "well how are we saposed to hang out if i don't know your number" then boom you got it and your done. Also if since you said she is an hb9 then make sure you do not compliment her at all! In fact I would suggest you look into neg hinting. If you want advice other than that then you will have to be more specific on your question bro.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top