Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[HollowHorizon]

Alright i have one hour and a half till i go to school... There is a girl i like i want to impress her she is really pretty i might add.. What should i where ...??? I wanna ask her to go bowling with me this weekend but how should i approach that??? Please help i only have a hour in a half till school....

 

[b's nuts]

read the bible

 

[xblitz44x]

Haha, yeah read the bible in a half hour.

Ok, listen. Calm your SILLY ass down first. Relax yourself, she's a just a woman. you're not approaching Jesus Christ for a date. She's just a girl, and she's pretty. That in itself is not worth getting worked up over. The power she has over you, YOU'VE granted to her. See her for what she is and realize that allllll of these perceptions (She's sweet, she's confident, she's carefree, she's fun, she's great in bed) are JUST illusions and, right now, don't contain a shred of truth. Wear whatever you feel comfortable with, and confident with.

If you've talked to her before, say to her "Hey what's up, how's it going? (let her answer). "That's cool. I'm doing good. Bored as hell though. What do you have going on this week? (let her answer). "Nice, I think I might go bowling or something, you should come with me. (let her respond). Alright well check your schedule, and see if you're avaible. Write your number down and I'll call you this week so we can work out the details."

Girl you've never talked to..."Hey what's up? What are you doing? Me, nothing really. I saw you last week and wanted to meet you but I never got the opportunity. My name is Paco (or whatever your name is). Well listen, I'd like to talk to you some more but it's really tough here in class, why don't we get together sometime? Cool, what's your number I'll call you this week"

Have fun brotha. Remember, she's just a girl.

-Blitz

 

[Shadow Dancer]

Simple, simple. Ready for it? Hear it is:

You: Hey Trisha (or whatever her name is), how's it going?

Her: Blah, blah, blah.

You: Oh, cool. I was just talking about that with my friend (find something to relate to what she said. Nothing fancy, just a tidbit). Hey, this weekend I'm thinking about going bowling. You should come and entertain me. It'll be fun.

That's it. There is more you can do but you're just beggining so stick to this and you'll do great.

 

[HollowHorizon]

Hey Thanks for the advice i tried it..
The only screwed up about how i asked was i asked her indirectly
I was talking about going

I said : I am going to bowling this weekend ( Announcing everyone) i haven't been there in a while i really wannna do something with some friends or hang out.

Her: Yeah, i havent been there in a while but the music sucks. It wasent fun anymore when pepole stopped going.

Rember the only way i could get the message to her (without real guts) is to ivite the pepole around her. But when i saw her walking to class i yelled go u should bowling this saturday.

I think she smiled. not shure she smiles alot.

Day 2 : i was not at all in the mood i had less confidence then before..(Unkown resons)

I diden't get to talk to her much but i did little things for her to look at me. We are not very close im not shure i can be considerd a friend yet.

So... every time i walked 'n saw her in school i would smile and wave to see if i can pull some type of small sedcuction.

Everytime she would walk up and give me a high five. .. This will take time but with my fellow dj's having my back i am shurly not to fail..

 

[xblitz44x]

I think you should cut your losses. You needed to make that approach when it was JUST HER so that you could figure out what she was really thinking without the cluttering noise of other people and social pressure interferring with the signal. So before you'll ever be able to figure this out, you're going to have to approach her while she's alone. This time, fvck bowling, she doesn't want to go. Try going out for something to eat. If she turns down your offer - write her off. It's over. No "chipping away" or being persistant will work. She's not interested and you can move on to one or 12 of the other millions of women out there.

-Blitz

 

[HollowHorizon]

Thanks great man i liked a few of your ideas..I already know she likes bowling and hasent been there in a while so i found it as a targeted area.. Also at lunch i somehow found a way to get in her table..You have to take in mind she isent like most girls. The pepole at her table and her friends are like outkasts.. Like they have their own trend ( Might i add it looks so ****ing retarded) She dresses like a normal person and she is HB9..She isent into rap like most girls not even commecial semi-hardcore band ( ie Disturbed Korn Etc) im not completley shure..
My point of this post is mainly the girl i have targeted... I will not be upsett if she dosen't show up to bowling becuse of 2 reasons (might i add very good tip from xblitz44x) One is that that i have asked her inderectly and i need to has her more personaly to get a reaction that could maker a keeper or a sweeper.... i asked a group including her. The other is that she might not care or know that i really want her to come and hang out with me for the simple fact that i have only hung out with her when i was with my friends and her friends.( that was like a year ago)...Dont doubt me dj's i am gonna make more attemps untill i know exactly how much intrest she has if she has any... Please send all commets back i would love to hear what you have to say also if any of you guys have aim just put ur sn down and ill im you.. Well Thanks and good luck Don Juans

 

[Shadow Dancer]

You already know what to do. It's been said in this thread. You're just hesitating and asking for reassurance. Go do it.

If you catch me online feel free to IM me, but do not start asking me how my day has been, or telling me that you're bored. Just say "hey" and go from there.

My screen name is RidetheRhythms.

 

[HollowHorizon]

Yeah