Hi, I posted something about a week ago about my confidence. I have way more confidence now. but now I have another problem. Girls just don't seem to find me attractive I guess..? My friends friend who is a girl invited him to come over today because her parents werent home. She had another friend there so me and my other friend went too. So there was me 2 of my guy friends, with 2 girls. Both girls were cute but only one was available. I obviously showed my sense of humor because I made them laugh alot and i thought the one girl liked me...but then her friend told her that my guy friend was hot....i seriously believe I'm wayyyy better looking than him. So my self esteem went way down because she picked him. Its kinda pissin me off because I dont get ****. So when she had to leave she asked for his #. This isn't a one time thing either, girls never really are attracted to me. I'm confused because i think I'm good looking...idk its just annoying when you think your something but your not...WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO GET GIRLS?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Tits or GTFO? 
Well, back in the day, when I wasn't good, confident or anything, chicks didn't like me either; OR SO I THOUGHT. It was just obvious to me that they didn't like me. Nothing really changed about my looks, but when I started to get it more and more, chicks digged me more and more. I'd go as far as saying that I looked better 1.5 years ago then now. I can definately tell you that I get soooo much more chicks now. I even have my fvcked up teeth (which are partly fixed recently though). "You have really good game for someone with ugly teeth." Yeah, a chick actually said that. I'll take it as a compliment.
I don't really know what my point is. It's about believing in yourself. Pushing yourself. It's like bodybuilding; it's not a one-day thing.
Be sexual. Be confident. Her choices shouldn't be devestating your confidence. That just means how much it matters to you right now what people think of you and that you base your confidence on looks (which is usual).
Well, back in the day, when I wasn't good, confident or anything, chicks didn't like me either; OR SO I THOUGHT. It was just obvious to me that they didn't like me. Nothing really changed about my looks, but when I started to get it more and more, chicks digged me more and more. I'd go as far as saying that I looked better 1.5 years ago then now. I can definately tell you that I get soooo much more chicks now. I even have my fvcked up teeth (which are partly fixed recently though). "You have really good game for someone with ugly teeth." Yeah, a chick actually said that. I'll take it as a compliment.
I don't really know what my point is. It's about believing in yourself. Pushing yourself. It's like bodybuilding; it's not a one-day thing.
Be sexual. Be confident. Her choices shouldn't be devestating your confidence. That just means how much it matters to you right now what people think of you and that you base your confidence on looks (which is usual).
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How bad really are your teeth?NorwegianDJ said:Tits or GTFO?
Well, back in the day, when I wasn't good, confident or anything, chicks didn't like me either; OR SO I THOUGHT. It was just obvious to me that they didn't like me. Nothing really changed about my looks, but when I started to get it more and more, chicks digged me more and more. I'd go as far as saying that I looked better 1.5 years ago then now. I can definately tell you that I get soooo much more chicks now. I even have my fvcked up teeth (which are partly fixed recently though). "You have really good game for someone with ugly teeth." Yeah, a chick actually said that. I'll take it as a compliment.
I don't really know what my point is. It's about believing in yourself. Pushing yourself. It's like bodybuilding; it's not a one-day thing.
Be sexual. Be confident. Her choices shouldn't be devestating your confidence. That just means how much it matters to you right now what people think of you and that you base your confidence on looks (which is usual).
Mine are bad, one of my 2 front teeth is pushed back and it sucks trying to talk to girls alot
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Lets just say I had chemo when I was under 9 months old. They're quite tiny and ****. Huge gaps, missing like 13. I did fix 6 front teeth this summer though.galmorphus said:
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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.