"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is there anybody respected on this board that would be willing to help me. I plan on starting up clubbing again. I'd like to post to him/her field reports. What do you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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boss,

Why don't you post your reports and updates on this thread, so, we can all read them and respond if we choose to do so?

BTW, that is one of the reasons that a lot of guys lurk and post here..
 
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I went for a long walk today-

I said hi, to a couple of people. What I kind of noticed, is that they seemed to find it weird that I said hi to them. Like why is some random stranger talking to me?

I don't know, why I give off this vibe. It seems that other people don't have this problem. What I also found out, when somebody actually knows me, they think it is normal. This is just my impression from the non-verbal communication signals.
 
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Walking

Saying Hi

Should I approach this any differently? I guess, I am not the only one with this problem. Does this go away the more, I practice? I just, don't want to bug any people, that don't want to be bugged.
 
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