"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pierce

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I have been dating this girl for the past 8 months. We are bothin in college. During the summer we hung out like every day 24/7 unless we were in class. I could feel something was wrong past week because we weren't having sex. Well she went home the other day and now she is telling me that she thought I was too emotional and that turned her off. Now I don't feel as if I was too emotional. I told her I love her with all my heart like once a day. Do you guys think thats overdoing it??? Sometimes I feel like I have to change for her liking and that aint a DJ. What do you guys think I need to do to make her want me more???

she didnt dump me. she just told me she was turned off by me being emotional
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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None of your actions were of DJ calibur and here's why:

-Never spend every day with a girl. Period.
-Never tell a girl you love her everyday. Ever.
-She was right about you being emotional. Obviously.

Assess and readjust for next time. Your relationship is officially over.
 
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We still dating.. I just dont want this to continue... What if she tells me she loves me. Do i say it back?
 
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