"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pierce

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I have been dating this girl for the past 8 months. We are bothin in college. During the summer we hung out like every day 24/7 unless we were in class. I could feel something was wrong past week because we weren't having sex. Well she went home the other day and now she is telling me that she thought I was too emotional and that turned her off. Now I don't feel as if I was too emotional. I told her I love her with all my heart like once a day. Do you guys think thats overdoing it??? Sometimes I feel like I have to change for her liking and that aint a DJ. What do you guys think I need to do to make her want me more???

she didnt dump me. she just told me she was turned off by me being emotional
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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None of your actions were of DJ calibur and here's why:

-Never spend every day with a girl. Period.
-Never tell a girl you love her everyday. Ever.
-She was right about you being emotional. Obviously.

Assess and readjust for next time. Your relationship is officially over.
 
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We still dating.. I just dont want this to continue... What if she tells me she loves me. Do i say it back?
 
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