"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok so this is the situation, theres this girl who i´ve been kind of seeing for a while, she tells me that she´s totally into me and she tells me that im a very important person in her life, but the problem starts when we talk about hanging out, she says she misses me and that she whants to hang out that i should call her the next day to sort things out(she gives me a time to call her, I usually call her a little bit later), but when I call her she doesn´t answer the phone this has happened around 3 times, she then calls me later on that week or the same night to appologize, any advice would be appreciated what should I do in this situation I know that i should have ditched this girl a long time ago but im real close to fu##### her
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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juancarlosmhz said:
ok so this is the situation, theres this girl who i´ve been kind of seeing for a while, she tells me that she´s totally into me and she tells me that im a very important person in her life, but the problem starts when we talk about hanging out, she says she misses me and that she whants to hang out that i should call her the next day to sort things out(she gives me a time to call her, I usually call her a little bit later), but when I call her she doesn´t answer the phone this has happened around 3 times, she then calls me later on that week or the same night to appologize,
Well normally I don't post in the HIGH SCHOOL section,but what the hey...

You've stumbled on what's know here as a "AW",or that is,an attention wh0re.


Basically,she's playin' you. She knows you like her,she knows you're interested in her,and she's using YOUR ATTRACTION FOR HER to get her EGO fed.



She'll keep this little game going on for as long as she can,until she gets tired of toying with you,or until another guy comes along who she does like and wants to be in a relationship with.



And I hate to burst your bubble on this on this one,but you're NOT AS CLOSE to fu###king her as you think.




That's all the bad news.



The good news is that this all CAN BE turned around.



It can be turned around,but it's NOT easy.



Go to the bottom of this reply,and click on the word "THIS!".


Don't worry,it's not 5 pages of a thread to read,it's just one single reply.



Read it,and if you REALLY WANT to date this girl,then follow those instructions TO THE LETTER.




If you do what's written there,it should help you to get back in control of things.




Later man.
 

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Igetit hit the nail right on the head
 

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Thanks, I´m triying it out, and so far it seems to work out pretty fine, i´ll post back when I finish the process (she´s been calling me often, but I won´t answer the phone =)
 

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Thanks, I´m triying it out, and so far it seems to work out pretty fine, i´ll post back when I finish the process (she´s been calling me often, but I won´t answer the phone =)

No,NO,NO!!!


You're doing it wrong man! You're not supposed to ignore her phone calls,you're supposed to ignore her text messages and/or her attempts to contact you by Facebook or MySpace.


The fact that she's calling you IS GOOD,I mean there has to be something there.



Reread that info in my signature. I NEVER SAID to ignore her phonecalls.



It's ok to talk to her,just...

1)Keep the conversations short.

and


2)Whatever you do,DON'T SAY ANYTHING about going out with her or spending time together.




You NEED TO answer her phonecalls man.



Just re-read the info in my signature more CAREFULLY.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thanks, i got pretty good results, I followed the process and she even asked me to become exclusive
 
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