"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grover_mister

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so if i got this figured out right.. My fathers uncle (my great uncle) has a daughter (my fathers cousin) who has a daughter as well that around my age.. that should make her what my 3rd or 4th cousin...


well i am deeply attracted to her and flirt with her alot. she wants to hang out with me and idk how to go about the situation cuz i think she is pretty darn good looking.

what do i do now...ugh
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CaptainJ

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You've got a bit of red on your neck.
 

Stblack

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Go for it if you want to. Be prepared for a lot of awkward joking from your family though.
 

eaglez1177

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Stblack said:
Go for it if you want to. Be prepared for a lot of awkward joking from your family though.
Yeah thats gonna be weird talking about with ur family
 

Analyzeit

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I think thats a bit close bro and doesn't that make her your 2nd cousin and i think 3 or 4th is like the limit but i think thats with marridge lol the best way to put it is you have the same great grandparents
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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