Okay, I'm 19. My sister still attends HS and she sometimes brings along her best friend (Fifi) after school home. She is freaking beautiful. Anyways, She and I get along pretty cool. She always tries to wrestle me and stuff. We flirt, but by touching. She sees me on the couch and she comes to put her head on my thigh or put a leg over my knee. We touch hands, she runs her hand thru my hair, etc. That is how far its gotten. Whenever we doing any of this, I get an instant semi. Gosh, she smells good and her hair is sexy. Well, Yesterday all three of us were at the comp, and i think my sis asked Fifi why she comes to our house so often. She said she comes to see me. She said this infront of me and it created a akward silience. Sooooo, awhile after that, i went to my room and she followed me. she sat on my bed and we started to draw on each other's arm lol. time ended and she had to go. I regret not asked her right there about the her purpose of coming to see me. I wanna see if I can make something out of this. Thing is she is 16 and has a boyfriend. I wanna bring up what she said but uncertain about how. Should I whisper in her ear? or should I grab her hand and take her outside and ask her? What should I say? and I enjoy the touchy flirty thing. I want to improve. I sometimes tickle her knee and play with her hand. What else is there I can do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
She obviously likes you and a 16 yo has absolutely no understanding of commitment. A boyfriend is more expendable then a twenty dollar bill at that age. The short of it: You would have already been f*cking her if you had the balls to make any sort of move whatsoever. Quit analyzing the situation boys, when the girl gives you the nod you do the damn thing, longer you wait just killin your shot.
Having said all that. Don't date a minor. That's pretty f*ckin lame. Plus she's probably terrible in bed anyway. Get it in if you want but think about it first bro. Good luck.
Having said all that. Don't date a minor. That's pretty f*ckin lame. Plus she's probably terrible in bed anyway. Get it in if you want but think about it first bro. Good luck.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
With the younger chicks you gotta be direct. They don't know their role yet and are about as comfortable in bed as a death row convict..
But once they get some d*ck they'll keep coming back for more anyway like a crack addict...for the rest of their lives. Score some play once and she'll probably hook up with you until she finds someone more exciting to f*ck. And she will because she's young and stupid so keep that in mind too.
Basically, get her alone, make a move (kiss her), make out for a little bit and tell her what you want. Be persuasive but not demanding and she should give you a brand new spit shine.
I reconsidered you're only 19 3 years ain't that bad I guess I might've done the same at your age.
But once they get some d*ck they'll keep coming back for more anyway like a crack addict...for the rest of their lives. Score some play once and she'll probably hook up with you until she finds someone more exciting to f*ck. And she will because she's young and stupid so keep that in mind too.
Basically, get her alone, make a move (kiss her), make out for a little bit and tell her what you want. Be persuasive but not demanding and she should give you a brand new spit shine.
I reconsidered you're only 19 3 years ain't that bad I guess I might've done the same at your age.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
You'll probably have to be a little more careful, not to make any sudden moves that will completely take her off guard. If she says no to something, don't force it, or else she'll get freaked out and maybe even scared of you.Clover17 said:I forgot to mention this. I've been relucant to make a direct move because she told me she was molest when she was younger. Does this matter