"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HandyAndy

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Well i havnt been to the gym in about a month...I have school and football practice from 8-3 school and 3-6 practice, i go home tired, shower and do my homework. I simply have no time to lift weights like i used to. How can i make some time in my schedual? I really wanna go back and lift.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You don't have the moderation, so you should quit.

So you have football every day?

You could do them in the morning.
 

wolf116

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You should not be doing weights if you do football everyday. You will over-train and get injuries. Especially if your diet is not spot on.

You could do weights in the morning but I wouldn't advise it if you train every day.

The pros don't even train every day! Thats just stupid. Take some days off.
 

HandyAndy

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Well what do you suggest I should do? I have no say over when football practice is, its 4-5 days a week not including game days, its up to the school not me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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