"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stuff64

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I just can't approach girls. I can never talk to them, I just freeze up. I really need help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey Stuff69, I was in your position a couple years ago. You're taking the right steps by reconizing that it's there. I would suggest reading pickupguide and fast seduction. Say hi to every girl you walk by for a while. Just hi. This trick works wonders.

Just dont give up man,
-fth

p.s. keep learning and improving 24/7. Work on your body and mind, and girls will notice the change. Even if they don't right away _you'll_ feel better and more able to survive socially.
 
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Work on yourself first well until your comfortable about being who you are and not to care about what others think i use to be a chump but i realised sometimes you just have to step up. Imagine the girl your approaching as butt ugly or even just as a friend. Practice by even just talking to anyone of the opposite sex friends family whatever, until you feel comfortable around women keeping conversation going and you'll feel at ease later when doing cold approaches.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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