"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stuff64

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I just can't approach girls. I can never talk to them, I just freeze up. I really need help.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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fulltimehero

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Hey Stuff69, I was in your position a couple years ago. You're taking the right steps by reconizing that it's there. I would suggest reading pickupguide and fast seduction. Say hi to every girl you walk by for a while. Just hi. This trick works wonders.

Just dont give up man,
-fth

p.s. keep learning and improving 24/7. Work on your body and mind, and girls will notice the change. Even if they don't right away _you'll_ feel better and more able to survive socially.
 

Coupe De Grace

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Work on yourself first well until your comfortable about being who you are and not to care about what others think i use to be a chump but i realised sometimes you just have to step up. Imagine the girl your approaching as butt ugly or even just as a friend. Practice by even just talking to anyone of the opposite sex friends family whatever, until you feel comfortable around women keeping conversation going and you'll feel at ease later when doing cold approaches.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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