"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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crossboss

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Hi,

I am crossboss, you may know me here from the past. I used to complain a lot, but fixed a lot of problems here on the discussion. Yet I still can't figure out how to be happy. I try to pick up a hobby, but it doesn't do any good. Any suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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crossboss

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Any suggestions of where?

WC2 said:
You won't find happiness from an online forum, trust me.
So I can't find happiness here anywhere where I can? I might be even interested in paying money for some programs.
 

crossboss

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To tell you the truth.

I am never been much a succeeder. I barely pass my classes, as well as having mental issues. Through this site, I self-improved where now I feel I can get any girl interested in me. That as a general statement. People see past my problems and like me for who I am. Sure I have been called weird, stupid. However, I am different. I try to conquer my mental problems but it is hard.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Happiness is a journey, not a destination."
 

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try things you haven't tried before. go out and have fun. DOn't worry about girls for the time being, go and explore. sky diving, helecoptor tour, lazertag, paintball, bowling, ice skating, rollerblading, go kart racing, dance dance revolution, etc... just be open minded and try new things, i'm sure you'll find something that you'll enjoy.
 

crossboss

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Mental Problems

Psycho, depression, ADD, learning disabilities.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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