help..

[formation]

ok, so i made a post couple days or a week ago, and basically me and a girlfriend broke up ( it was a LTR ) but anyway, i kept beggin and it made me look BADDDD she called me a *****, and right there, i stopped talkin to her. but a couple of HER friends and my friends ( they are more close with me ) want to talk to her, because they feel that the things i did for her should be enough for a second chance. ( i never told my ex what i did for her behind closed doors ) sooo question is, should i let them talk to her or no? ( please keep in mind that my ex is already talkin to someone else )..

i know in the DJ bible it says to not talk to the girl for a while, but im scared she'll run off with the other guy...

 

[flexion_]

DO NOT GET YOUR FRIENDS INVOLVED. That will backfire.

Listen, you can't stop her from seeing some other dude if you broke up. Thats probably just her damage control method - latch on the next available guy.

This is the most valuable advice you get - disappear from her life. Then, she make take interest down the road; but not if you take the other approach.

 

[formation]

so now what? just wait?.. and then come back into her life later??...heres the thing to.. her college starts in couple weeks and i was the one always picking her up and dropping her off, should i continue to do that when school starts?.. and if not, if she asks me for a ride, what should i do... and should i still be there for her as a friend if she needs me?

 

[formation]

and if i stop talkin to her, should i say anything to her before we stop speaking? or just starting today ignore her phone calls etc. etc.

 

[DaviiB]

Flexion was right on the money.

She has moved on.....so should you. You cannot stop her if she wants to get with someone else.

So disappear from her life. Stop calling her....everything. I doubt there is ANYTHING you can say to her that will make her change her mind at this point. So....show complete disenterest in her. Start seeing other women...please...If you want to ever have a chance of getting yur ex back....which may very well seem like a bad idea when the oppertunity arises.

So, again...just stop talking to her and go on with yur life. I'm SURE you have better things to do with yur time. Start seeing other people....and let her find out about it. A little while after that would probably be a good time for her to find out about all the things you did for her. Then just let it sit. Please keep in mind that all this time yur life is going on...other women...etc

After that...it just might work. But again, you might very well decide that getting back with her is not suce a good idea after all.