"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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G_Nice_06

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Yo wats up evey body, I need help talkin to women. I have no idea how to talk to girls for some reason. I don't know y it's so hard for me but ever time i'm ready to talk to a female I begin walkin toward her and then make a 90 degree turn and then my mind says (wat the hell is wrong wit u that girl is FRICKIN HOT). Either that happens or I walk up to her and ask her some stupid @$$ question that I didn't intend to ask her like "hey do u work here." she then says "no" and I say "oh sorry about that" wats wrong wit me y can't I just talk to these girls like I do everyone else. I have problem talkin to other people Hell I don't even have a problem with talkin to girls that I don't like or girls I know have no interest in me. SH*T this killin me I need some advice so please HELP A BROTHER OUT

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mpimpin

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Take a step back. Look at yourself. Make yourself feel good. Tell yourself over and over again you are the prize. Start by approaching all types of people. Guys or Girls/ Old or young. Doesn't matter. Talk to everyone. Stare everyone in the eyes. It'll become natural to approach people and have a conversation with them. You'll start approaching HB's. Treat them like all your other approaches. Remember your the prize!!!
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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this also helps:
there's ton of people on this board who are dumbasses, and can't speak to a woman without pre-thought-up convos... and if they don't plan ahead they'll look like bigger dumbasses

and no, im not saying to pre-think convos. so that's why you should go read the 'bible' located at the bottom of this board.
 
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