"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pugnacio

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I used to go to highschool with this girl. I left town for 9 months to go to
college, I came back, and found this girl's MySpace page and sent her a
message. She responded - it went very well and she even called me cute and
showed interest enough to give me her number so I could take her out. I
realize I really screwed up by calling her too soon but it seemed like she really
wanted me to call her. My problem is this: when I called it went straight to
voice mail and I left a message (another mistake). She hasn't called me back
nor have I talked to her online for 3 days. Normally I would forget about
the girl but I really like her - of course it is possible she didn't get the
message (I hope that's the case) but what do you think I should do? I know as soon as you start chasing a girl she will lose all attraction for you and I really don't want to mess this up. It's been 3 days since I called and I'm hoping she will contact me but this sucks. I am thinking of writing a ****y letter like "You know if you want to go out with me you should probably return my call" making me out to be the prize" but maybe this is a bad idea. Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pt1. Learn to type. You don't need to press Enter every 10 words.

Pt2. Yeah, your letter is a bad idea, especially the wording. Not something a girl would change her plans for..

Pt3. 3 days is NOTHING. Wait 4 more, and then phone her. Just ask her like a normal guy if she wants to do something, don't pull stuff like "I'm the prize", when you clearly don't know how to use it properly.
 

2easy

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Sounds like your already into this girl. Don't waste your time sending the letter. If she doesn't call, call her again. If she doesn't pick up or return, next.
 

milrenkb

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Look part of being a DJ is not getting tied up over any one girl. Your doing what she should be doing, self-hypnosis concerning the other party.
 
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