"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help with two chicks in queens

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I'll try to make this short so i met these chicks on sunday..One was kindda of my cousin but she isn't , her parents and my mom just grew together. So i go visit them down in queens once in a while.like i'm going there for thanksgiving
Now she's a 6. ..Now the other one is a 9 she looks like beyonce, she looks real good..but when i met her i knew i shouldn't be needy.
So the 6 , was attracted to me i could obviously tell, i didn't really like her. but i talked to her ,,had fun with her ,, wrestled a bit just had fun but not more...Now the 9 from from the start i knew she was interested so i wanted to increase the attraction for me. but really i just wanted to laugh and have fun..So we played we were all laughing, told her dat i moved from canada 3 weeks ago..i asked her questions..so while playing cards , we were playin crazy eight and i forgot a bit how to play it so i asked who could help me so she did..and she had her hand her shoulder on my knees.like i was sitting down..she was all over me..so at that point i knew she definitly interested.
So we went to the store while walking bac ..i asked where the chips at then she showed me her finger and wanted me to lic it..the 6 said i dare you to do it and 9 really wanted me to do it.so anywayz i didn't do it .i don't if i should of or not..
so we got home sat on the floor, me and the 9 were pretty close..we were watching tv..so after a while she hit my leg she obviously wanted to flirt..so i hit her bac..she hit me bac and so on..den i went to get a drink wen i came bac she had to move closer to me cuz her little sister wanted to sit..so we she moved bac..she kindda put her all body on me..and we had like a 10 second hug..she was in love i could tell!!! so i had to leave so i asked everyone if they had email ..everyone said yes..wen the 6 wrote her email .when she got at the @ symbol i said put ur number there 2 and ur name..she did ..but i couldn't do that with the 9 because i had to get my things ready...the 9 gave me her email..the 6 gave me her number and email.
and i said bye one last time and the 9 said WRITE ME
so i'm here are my questions
1) what do i write in my email to both of them .should i try to get the 9's number in the email..like she told me to write her so i really want to but don't wanna sound needy ....like could somebody help me on that..and i might see them on thanksgiving..???????
2) When the girls talk about other guys what do you do .i just played it cool and smiled and watched tv..??
3) When i was with the 9 on the floor and we were touching flirting ..and we hit each other ..and when she leaned her body on me ..what could i have done.like could i have said something did something..more touching???
ALright thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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please anyone help

please anyone help
anything you have to help me with would be great
 

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please anyone help like just read questions u don't have to read the text..
PLEASE!!!
 

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Holy crap. Impatient little shiits...

1. You set up a date. That's it. Don't even think about drifting off into 'I like you', or 'what's up' bull. As for the number, wait for a response from her, and then if it's a accept, email her back asking her for the number so you can call her closer to the time.

2. You shouldn't even be concerned about that. You are the guy they want, so get them to talking about you (rumours, stories, ie CREATE RAPPORT)

3. Learn to flirt and you'll answer your own question.

PS: You're a Kingston boy aren't you?
 

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LMAO. Respond. Guys, C'MON!!
Relax bro, it's not like the girl is going to lose interest in you within the next 20 minutes.


Ask her to hang out, have something already in mind. If shes down, get the #.

When girls talk about other guys, I chime in.

"He's so hot."
Me: OMG I Know, I'd so do him.

They know I'm joking, but it beats ignoring them, and it beats getting all girly about it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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