Enishi Yukishiro
New Member
Well, let´s begin
I was dating a girl, wich had many problems in her house with her folks and family in general..u know fights and the such. Her mom is a drunk, and her father is a violent fella.
She also works and studies, and takes dance lessons (clasic).
We started to see each other less and less, because we both had obligations (I also have a life u know ) and things in her house where getting really ugly. With each passing day we saw each other less and less, and the phone conversations also suffered the same fate. On the day of my birthday she came, said Hi and left really quick because she had "things to do"... (the fact was she was celous of some girls there, and had problems in her house AGAIN )..
Well I got fed up, and told her everything I had in my mind, and a week later she broke up with me.
please, bear in mind this is a reduced version of the history...
Now, a month later, she calls me and tells me she misses me, that she did that because she was angry, that she loves me with all her heart (she never said that when we where dating) and wants to be with me BUT, she does not want me to get hurt if we start dating again, because her life is still worse, and she is afraid her situation might hurt my feelings
Ok, I really like the girl, and I would love to start dating her again, for now I´m playing it cool, but I don´t know if WTF is she REALLY saying..
Another issue is I´m dating other girls, but I think I have a case of oneitis with this particular girl...
Any help would be welcome.
PD: Sorry for my english, I´m from Argentina... and I don´t feel like checking the post for mistakes (ouch, I rechecked!)
I was dating a girl, wich had many problems in her house with her folks and family in general..u know fights and the such. Her mom is a drunk, and her father is a violent fella.
She also works and studies, and takes dance lessons (clasic).
We started to see each other less and less, because we both had obligations (I also have a life u know ) and things in her house where getting really ugly. With each passing day we saw each other less and less, and the phone conversations also suffered the same fate. On the day of my birthday she came, said Hi and left really quick because she had "things to do"... (the fact was she was celous of some girls there, and had problems in her house AGAIN )..
Well I got fed up, and told her everything I had in my mind, and a week later she broke up with me.
please, bear in mind this is a reduced version of the history...
Now, a month later, she calls me and tells me she misses me, that she did that because she was angry, that she loves me with all her heart (she never said that when we where dating) and wants to be with me BUT, she does not want me to get hurt if we start dating again, because her life is still worse, and she is afraid her situation might hurt my feelings
Ok, I really like the girl, and I would love to start dating her again, for now I´m playing it cool, but I don´t know if WTF is she REALLY saying..
Another issue is I´m dating other girls, but I think I have a case of oneitis with this particular girl...
Any help would be welcome.
PD: Sorry for my english, I´m from Argentina... and I don´t feel like checking the post for mistakes (ouch, I rechecked!)