"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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help with those two cases

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Hi guys I really need help asap. It's about two girls that I'm trying 2 get w/ no intention of cheating, just trying to get one of them. Here are the stories.
1) i've seen a girl working at a Walgreens pharmacy n I like her. I would like 2 know how I would approach her and close the deal without disturbing her or something like that. I have the confidence and all but sometimes I am in lack of openers.

2) I work at a shoestore mostly for ladies. One day a girl came in. I said "Hi" with a smile with no intention of flirting or whatever, and she answered "Hellooooo". She took a quick look and on her way out I wanted to improve my DJ skills by practicing:
Me: hey excuse me do you work upstairs?
Her: No I work at Doo Wop Diner (a diner in the same area)
Me: Oh ok. It's just that I've noticed you passing by a lot of times. So what's your name?
Her: Lisa
Me: I'm LeBron. Nice to meet you.
Her: Nice to meet you too ( shake hands). Hey I'm in a hurry but I'll be back. Bye.
And she was gone.
An hour later she came back but didn't see me. On her way out again, she saw me and said " hey I'm back " ( smiling). Since I was talking to the district manager, I couldn't step to her and speak to her. I just said " hey wat's up". After a few seconds standing next to the door, she asked the time and went out.
I work part-time and I haven't seen her for 3 weeks. After that, she came again. That's when I noticed that she was really hot. we talked a lil bit and I let her look arround. When she was paying, I was at the register, and since we have to asked for customer's phone numbers, I asked hers, saved it on the register and asked if I could call her. She said "sure". She gave it to me(smiling), and said " I will talk 2 you later". However, when I try 2 call her, they tell me that her phone is not in service at that time.
Should I go where she works(for lunch or something), or should I just forget about her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What does "phone not in service" mean in the states? Is it a malfunction or did she just give you the wrong number?

If its a malfunction try calling her back at a later point (once, then maybe a txt, nothing more if she doesn't reply).

If she gave out a fake number, just forget about her (dont approach her, only have contact with her if she initates, and start acting ****y)
 

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dude I think it's a malfunction bcuz I tried a phone that was not working and it was not the same speech. For the first case also, I'm confused about how to handle it and I don't want to disturb the girl at her work.
 

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l23 said:
Hi guys I really need help asap. It's about two girls that I'm trying 2 get w/ no intention of cheating, just trying to get one of them. Here are the stories.
1) i've seen a girl working at a Walgreens pharmacy n I like her. I would like 2 know how I would approach her and close the deal without disturbing her or something like that. I have the confidence and all but sometimes I am in lack of openers.

WALK UP TO HER AND SAY HI, MY NAME IS LEBRON.

2) I work at a shoestore mostly for ladies.

WOW YOU MUST BE IN CHICK HEAVEN


One day a girl came in. I said "Hi" with a smile with no intention of flirting or whatever, and she answered "Hellooooo". She took a quick look and on her way out I wanted to improve my DJ skills by practicing:
Me: hey excuse me do you work upstairs?
Her: No I work at Doo Wop Diner (a diner in the same area)
Me: Oh ok. It's just that I've noticed you passing by a lot of times. So what's your name?
Her: Lisa
Me: I'm LeBron. Nice to meet you.
Her: Nice to meet you too ( shake hands). Hey I'm in a hurry but I'll be back. Bye.
And she was gone.
An hour later she came back but didn't see me. On her way out again, she saw me and said " hey I'm back " ( smiling). Since I was talking to the district manager, I couldn't step to her and speak to her. I just said " hey wat's up". After a few seconds standing next to the door, she asked the time and went out.
I work part-time and I haven't seen her for 3 weeks. After that, she came again. That's when I noticed that she was really hot. we talked a lil bit and I let her look arround. When she was paying, I was at the register, and since we have to asked for customer's phone numbers, I asked hers, saved it on the register and asked if I could call her. She said "sure". She gave it to me(smiling), and said " I will talk 2 you later". However, when I try 2 call her, they tell me that her phone is not in service at that time.
Should I go where she works(for lunch or something), or should I just forget about her?

CALL AGAIN AS NORMAL DURING YOUR NUMBER DIALING UP TIME (YOU SHOULD HAVE A LOT OF NUMBERS FROM GOING OUT REGUALRY AND APPROACHING WOMEN TO IMPROVE (WHICH IT DOESN'T SEEM YOUR DOING) , SO START GOING OUT AND APPROACHING, ITS IMPORTANT FOR IMPROVING YOUR SKILLS AND CREATING AN ABUNDANCE MINDSET)
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