"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help with these two sisters..

Snap87

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Ok so my brother invites his two best friends which happen to be two girls and one guy over to our house at around 11:00pm last night. We are are all downstairs watching a horror movie and we all horse-played a lot. Last time they came over, the sisters and I didn't really talk a lot because it was our second time meeting together. Both of these sisters talk really freaky most of the time about having sex, and how they like ****...they don't mean it because they are teasers i suppose. Anyways throughout the movie while we all are talking and laughing...the older sister started changing and becoming quite, also coming closer to me. She would lay her head on my lap and from time to time move her hand closer to my c0ck. I would feel as if we have been going out because she would talk serious with me about stuff. She just all of a sudden stop talking/acting kinky and being more quiet around me. Then the younger sister started to act the same and both sisters would eventually act more quiet and get closer to me. Putting their head on both of my lap and rubbing me from time to time was something they did a lot. They would both simultaneously touch me without being obvious to the other. It was obvious to me that they liked me because from all the eye contact. I would also talk kinky and start using curse words to a minimum to both of them because since they both talked that way....I figured they wouldn't mind.

Now this is the part which confused the **** out of me! When I said, "My mom would say..what the **** are these ugly girls doing in our house" as a joke.. the younger sister said, "Wow you don't know how to talk to girls...I meant that". I thought she wasn't serious because she just acts so wild. After she said that, she acted serious and wouldn't let me talk or touc her. 5 minutes later...the older sister told my brother to drive them home because they were tired, it was 1:30am. The older sister said bye, but the younger didn't say a word and left. When my brother came back I asked why the younger sister was so serious...he was telling me that they both said I was just too touchy with them, meaning I touched them too sexual. I never came came close to their pvssy, butts, or breasts...I was shocked and got so defensive because I couldn't believe what my brother told me about what the sisters said. Did they like me and wanted me to act serious with them??? Are girls around that age just ****ing stupid and don't know what they want?!? Was the younger one on her period?! What ever the case may be, I don't want to see them again because they would just act so damn emotional next time.

Keep in mind that the younger sister is 16, and the older is 18. I also wasn't trying to **** them or ask one out on a date because we were all in our parents house.

CLIFFS----But please read the info above
1- Two girls come to house with brother.
2- Start acting/talking kinky
3- Girls started calming down and being quiet around me...touching me
4- Younger girl got serious when I said joke about my mom seeing them
5- Both leave house with younger one looking frustrated
6- Brother comes back and tells me they said I touched them too much sexually, when they were the ones doing 90% of the touching.
7- Yes confused, yes I don't want to see them again

Please help me! I could care less if they don't like me anymore because i sure don't, but would just like your opinion as to where I went wrong so i can use this experience as a reference to future female engagements.
 

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eaglez1177

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Wow man im sorry but you're a complete fvcking idiot. Why the hell would you EVER say something like that? It doesnt matter if you meant it as a joke or not, they took the "ugly girls" part seriously. Really dumb move on your part, and I hate to say it, but you're chances with these chicks are probably gone.

And being "too touchy" with someone does not mean touching them too sexual. Being too touchy is just simply touching them too much, but I doubt that was the actual reason why the younger sister had a bit of an attitude at the end, she was prolly just making up some bs excuse.
 

Following_of_Me

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The lesson to learn here is watch what you say. NEVER call a girl ugly, that's not a joke, most girls are already insecure and it's not going to help things to make them feel insecure around you.
 
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