"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help With The Kiss

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DonJuanJnr

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Hey Guys,

I just went out with a girl I really like and she obviously likes me back however I didn't kiss her when she obviously wanted to. I have never kissed a girl on a date before and just donlt know how to get into the situation. Everything seems to feel awkward.

What steps should I take to get that 'moment' and get the kiss? It's just awkward I can't seem to do it.

Any help would be great as i am really starting to get annoyed.

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I find it helpfull to look in to a girls eyes when Im planning on kissing her, and at the same time place my hand gently around the side of her face.

This means that she knows whats going to happen, and you can guide it, so less chance of it going wrong.

Just pick a moment, maby just after you've been laughing/joking, play fighting etc.

I also find it helpfull if im not sure, to go in for a single kiss on the lips, draw back a few inches, then kiss properly if the first kiss was well recieved.

At the end of the day, you like her, she likes you, just go for it already.

Cure.
 
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do you mean how do you kiss?

coz we cant help with that lol if your bad tell her kissing is very intimate for you hence you only do it sparinly and say every girl likes to be kissed diffrently then as how she likes to be kissed
 
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DonJuanJnr

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No I'm not a bad kisser haha. It's just I can never get in that 'moment' and get the kiss of a girl.
 
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