"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Help With The Kiss

DonJuanJnr

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Hey Guys,

I just went out with a girl I really like and she obviously likes me back however I didn't kiss her when she obviously wanted to. I have never kissed a girl on a date before and just donlt know how to get into the situation. Everything seems to feel awkward.

What steps should I take to get that 'moment' and get the kiss? It's just awkward I can't seem to do it.

Any help would be great as i am really starting to get annoyed.

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cure

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I find it helpfull to look in to a girls eyes when Im planning on kissing her, and at the same time place my hand gently around the side of her face.

This means that she knows whats going to happen, and you can guide it, so less chance of it going wrong.

Just pick a moment, maby just after you've been laughing/joking, play fighting etc.

I also find it helpfull if im not sure, to go in for a single kiss on the lips, draw back a few inches, then kiss properly if the first kiss was well recieved.

At the end of the day, you like her, she likes you, just go for it already.

Cure.
 

londonzen

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do you mean how do you kiss?

coz we cant help with that lol if your bad tell her kissing is very intimate for you hence you only do it sparinly and say every girl likes to be kissed diffrently then as how she likes to be kissed
 

DonJuanJnr

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No I'm not a bad kisser haha. It's just I can never get in that 'moment' and get the kiss of a girl.
 
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