"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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help with open ended Q's

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could someone give me some good open ended questions for building up my conversing skills
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what do u want to be when u grow up.

that one always works and u can talk about whatever they say and then continue from there.
 
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whats your happiest memory

what would your ideal party be

if you could have 1 wish what would it be

theres are just non specific questions, it can be about anything, like "what is it aobut these clothes that make you liek them so much" basicly a question whihc can not be answered with a yes or no statment. To creat your own, just take a normal question you might ask and change it so it needs a developed answer, for example, if your question was, do you like to go to the cinema, the girl could say yes or no, it would be better to say what do you tihnk about the cinema, followed by what makes you like (or dislike) the cinema.

i hope iv been a help
 
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i was talking to some girl the other day and i something came up about some other guy that we both know. which i feel sorry for, bc he lies a lot....

and then i commented on what i thought his life would be like in 10 years. so then she was curious what i thought her life was going to be like in 10 years (pefect opportunity) i busted on her, it was so funny.... which then turned into a bigger and bigger conversation...then i told her what i would be in 10 years which was completly fictional and just ****y and funny....

so we had a conversation of about an hour and a half, but she just knew as much as she knew when i started talking with her, yet it let her know about more about my personality.... this way she likes me more, but i dont become boring by her knowing my lifelong plans and stuff
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who's cooler (not better) Superman or Batman. I think Batman but you have to be serious and argue it like its the most important thing in the world for it to have the full effect.

If you could have any magic power what would it be?

those are my favorites. Post yours.
 
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