"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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could someone give me some good open ended questions for building up my conversing skills
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what do u want to be when u grow up.

that one always works and u can talk about whatever they say and then continue from there.
 
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whats your happiest memory

what would your ideal party be

if you could have 1 wish what would it be

theres are just non specific questions, it can be about anything, like "what is it aobut these clothes that make you liek them so much" basicly a question whihc can not be answered with a yes or no statment. To creat your own, just take a normal question you might ask and change it so it needs a developed answer, for example, if your question was, do you like to go to the cinema, the girl could say yes or no, it would be better to say what do you tihnk about the cinema, followed by what makes you like (or dislike) the cinema.

i hope iv been a help
 
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i was talking to some girl the other day and i something came up about some other guy that we both know. which i feel sorry for, bc he lies a lot....

and then i commented on what i thought his life would be like in 10 years. so then she was curious what i thought her life was going to be like in 10 years (pefect opportunity) i busted on her, it was so funny.... which then turned into a bigger and bigger conversation...then i told her what i would be in 10 years which was completly fictional and just ****y and funny....

so we had a conversation of about an hour and a half, but she just knew as much as she knew when i started talking with her, yet it let her know about more about my personality.... this way she likes me more, but i dont become boring by her knowing my lifelong plans and stuff
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who's cooler (not better) Superman or Batman. I think Batman but you have to be serious and argue it like its the most important thing in the world for it to have the full effect.

If you could have any magic power what would it be?

those are my favorites. Post yours.
 
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