Help with older woman

[pete101]

I got a number off an older woman the other night. Shes probably in her late 30s, and I am much younger which may cause her reservations to meet up with me when I call. Any suggestions on what to say to ease any apprehension and get her to come out?

I didn't give anything away about how old I was on the night but at the same time it might have been better if i did cos she was asking various questions trying to figure out how old I was.. I am older than I look so that isn't an issue as much.. but she doesn't know that.

 

[pete101]

no advice anyone..?

 

[Skel]

She gave you her number, what else matters? Who cares how old you are. If she has a problem with it then next. No one answered because its simple.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

no advice anyone..?

She gives you her number and you're expecting her to have reservations? Stop worrying, Skel was spot on.

 

[pete101]

women give numbers all the time but doesn't necessarily mean they're interested. They'll just avoid picking up the call and then you have to next her. I'm trying to prepare in advance for what the result might be.. I read on here somewhere that the first conversation you have with her on the phone is critical in getting to come out and meet you.

If i'm on the assumption that I don't think she'll pick up my call but that if i get her on the phone I can persuade her more easily then its in my best interests to actually speak to her rather than having the call unanswered then having to next her.

i tried blocking my caller id yesterday called twice she didn't pick up. not sure what to do now. she doesn't know its me yet but still i don't want to be put in position where i call from my number she doesn't answer it and then i have to next her when i know that if i actually speak to her i can seduce her into meeting up in person.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...i tried blocking my caller id yesterday called twice she didn't pick up. ....

How many people do you know (especially women) that are anxious to answer a phone call from UNKNOWN CALLER?

 

[Latinoman]

I think the issue in this particular case is NOT that she is older or that she gave him the number or didn’t answer or whatever.

The issue here is that this young man is having a mental breakdown because of an older woman giving him the number. A man with choices could care less. Heck, a man with options might even forget to call!

 

[ryannath]

Man if I get an unknown or blocked call, i won't ever pick up my phone. You blocked it twice and she didn't answer, so call one more time and DON"T BLOCK IT THIS TIME! If she doesn't pick up this time, either leave a message saying who the fvck you are and tell her to give you a call, or psvvy out and not say who the fvck you are.

 

[yhgsvh74d]

see the above post, call once and leave a voicemail. also, age is only important in as much as it can often indicate other things like sexual experience, phsyical presence, earning potential, emotional maturity. keep her guessing if you do meet again.

 

[Da Realist]

I think she will meet up with you because you've got something mysterious about you that she wants to find out. She wants to know how old you really are and how you're better for her than the other guys she's been with. Plus I heard when women get that old their sex drives go through the roof and try to pick up younger guys. I say don't worry and just call her to see what happens from there.