"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help with my spanish teacher

PurpleHaze

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I have a really hot spanish teacher that I'm interested in. I need your help guys! I can't get her out of my mind. This is really important. Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

SHE IS VERY PRETTY!!!!

She is married but there is this tension between us. While she's lecturing to the class, she looks over at me and stares at me for a period of time.

Okay the only problem is that she's married. But, she doesn't wear her wedding ring and she still has her own last name. Can I take this as a clue that the marriage isn't as stable as it should be?

When I go and talk to her one on one, she seems kinda nervous and she looks away.

SHe also tells the class to email her with questions and concerns, but when I email her with general stuff like if I'm going to miss a class or something, she never responds to my emails.

I dont think it's a good idea to go up to her during the class, but I'm thinking it would be best to try something after the last day of class because after that I won't be her student anymore.

I dont want to miss this opportunity because I am really interested in her eventhough she's married. I need some major advice guys. I need your PIMPEST moves that I can use in this situation. How can I impress her without looking like I'm desperate? I need some DOn JUAN advice :)

Thanks a lot guys!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A married woman who doesn't wear a ring?/ HMMM??? I wonder what this means!!!

Quote a line to her in spainsh from Cervantes "Don Quixote" - she won't be able to resist you!!!

I think you have been watching too much T.V.!!!
 

ScrewIt

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Originally posted by PurpleHaze
She is married but there is this tension between us. While she's lecturing to the class, she looks over at me and stares at me for a period of time.
I had a married professor that did something like that to me last semester in one of my classes. but i'm above average in looks so i can only take that into account for her reason.

Okay the only problem is that she's married. But, she doesn't wear her wedding ring and she still has her own last name. Can I take this as a clue that the marriage isn't as stable as it should be?
you cant assume that, for all we know maybe she doesnt like wearing rings. and prefer to use her last name on campus.

When I go and talk to her one on one, she seems kinda nervous and she looks away.
are you good looking? she may just be intimidated.

SHe also tells the class to email her with questions and concerns, but when I email her with general stuff like if I'm going to miss a class or something, she never responds to my emails.
you're overanalyzing here. I think most people in general would not reply to a general email such as this. There's nothing to confim except reply with an "ok" so why bother?

I dont think it's a good idea to go up to her during the class, but I'm thinking it would be best to try something after the last day of class because after that I won't be her student anymore.
well if you feel like you have a good chance, ask her out for coffee sometime. If she feels like having an affair, fvk her all the way.
 

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This post just reeks of trouble. Don't go there, there have to be sooooo many hot girls at your school you can go after. Don't read into the teacher's actions, it probably isn't anything, and even if it was, you're just setting yourself up for disaster.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she still uses her last name she is probably just a feminist. And that doesn't mean her marriage is bad, either.

If you have the hots for her and keep eyeballing her she probably just feels you staring at her and is acting strange in reaction to how you are acting.

There have to be plenty of students for you to ask out. Since she's married it's best to leave well enough alone.
 

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I agree with Wyldfire, a family friend of mine doesn't user her husband's last name. She even admits as being a feminist. As far as getting this women, it seems like a lot of work. Personally, I wouldn't want to get in the middle of married couple. But I would if she made a blatent move or flirted when I talked with her. Don't take the email situation as a good sign. Most of the teachers don't really reply to this kinda stuff. I'd use C&F/Kino with caution...
 
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