"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey guys Im in need of some advice,ok heres the situation, I have been browsing the internet and came across some site similar to myspace but this one is used more in Australia.Anyway I have added a few really hot chicks msn addresses they all live local to me so i thought why not ,so my question is whats the best thing to say when these girls ask how did you get my email ? as most of them can be standoffish or full of themselves which they probably are,

I dont want to say I was browsing the site and Id thought id add you, dosent sound the best to me and they probably wont give you the time of day ,any ideas ?

next question is I get asked alot when girls send pictures to me via msn etc, what do you think of me ? or some just expect you to say something when they send a pic,whats the best thing to say to a

really hot chick ?
Average chick?
ugly chick?

thanks again guys for all your help
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude, go search for myspace threads on this forum...
You can't just e-mail a girl... That's just stalkerish...
I'll try to make it simple...
This is what I do on myspace. It works for me...

You find something you have in common and message her on the "similar to myspace thing" - If she bites then hell yeah, if not move on...

Ask a few questions about work/school whatever...
Get to know her schedule...

Then tease her about something but be funny at the same time.

Then wait a few days to reply and ask her out for to lunch for a bite to eat...

(Wait a day or two between responding to her messages)

Keep her challenged...

Yes... I'm on the internet too much...
 

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the problem dude is Im not a member of that site where i found there msn emails ,I dont have a profile up of myself as they do,I was just casually browsing and thought there hot and live close why not lol ,so i just want to know what to say when they ask me how did you get my msn address ? and then from than onwards I can ask the work school etc type of questions,its just the initial thing to say thats the problem ?
 

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huh sign up then...
 

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any other advice you can give me ? thanks scorched

what about in regards to this question , I get asked alot when girls send pictures to me via msn etc, what do you think of me ? or some just expect you to say something when they send a pic,whats the best thing to say to a

really hot chick ?
Average chick?
ugly chick?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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