"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Help with Msn.....

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Hey guys Im in need of some advice,ok heres the situation, I have been browsing the internet and came across some site similar to myspace but this one is used more in Australia.Anyway I have added a few really hot chicks msn addresses they all live local to me so i thought why not ,so my question is whats the best thing to say when these girls ask how did you get my email ? as most of them can be standoffish or full of themselves which they probably are,

I dont want to say I was browsing the site and Id thought id add you, dosent sound the best to me and they probably wont give you the time of day ,any ideas ?

next question is I get asked alot when girls send pictures to me via msn etc, what do you think of me ? or some just expect you to say something when they send a pic,whats the best thing to say to a

really hot chick ?
Average chick?
ugly chick?

thanks again guys for all your help
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dude, go search for myspace threads on this forum...
You can't just e-mail a girl... That's just stalkerish...
I'll try to make it simple...
This is what I do on myspace. It works for me...

You find something you have in common and message her on the "similar to myspace thing" - If she bites then hell yeah, if not move on...

Ask a few questions about work/school whatever...
Get to know her schedule...

Then tease her about something but be funny at the same time.

Then wait a few days to reply and ask her out for to lunch for a bite to eat...

(Wait a day or two between responding to her messages)

Keep her challenged...

Yes... I'm on the internet too much...
 

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the problem dude is Im not a member of that site where i found there msn emails ,I dont have a profile up of myself as they do,I was just casually browsing and thought there hot and live close why not lol ,so i just want to know what to say when they ask me how did you get my msn address ? and then from than onwards I can ask the work school etc type of questions,its just the initial thing to say thats the problem ?
 

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huh sign up then...
 

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any other advice you can give me ? thanks scorched

what about in regards to this question , I get asked alot when girls send pictures to me via msn etc, what do you think of me ? or some just expect you to say something when they send a pic,whats the best thing to say to a

really hot chick ?
Average chick?
ugly chick?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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