"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hey guys i was wondering if someone could give me some advice or help me out with this. there is a girl at the local walmart that is easily an 8. i've went to her line a few times but don't want to seem like a stalker and go to her everytime. i've noticed that she doesn't really speak to the people ahead of me when they get there. but everytime i go she always says how are you today. i usually respond back with great and how bout you. from there i usually ask her if it's been a busy day and then i'll bust on her and say hey that so and so was on sale for 99 cents and she'll go ok well let me get someone to check the price. and my response will be what you don't trust me? and she says yeah i do and i respond back with good cause i was lying anyway. she laughed and i put all my sacks in the cart and said have a nice day. the only thing is when i am in her line there is always a bunch of people behind me. should i ask her if she has a boyfriend or should i just ask for her phone number? what is the best way to approach this. thanks guys for any advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dont ask if she has a boyfriend, just ask if she wants to go out sometime and then ask for her number.

Thats my way of doing it.
 
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"Yeah, I need a pack of Camel lights, $40 in gas on pump 2, and your phone number."

Well, that works at a gas station...I dunno, just be creative. And try to get her out of the customer/employee frame...ask her if she goes to school around here, how she likes working there, etc...
 
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