"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help with "blind phone call"

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A friend of mine got me the phone number of a woman he works with (2 years younger then me, she knows I have it) howver I have never been set up before and I'm not sure how to start up a "cold" conversation on the phone.

Any help would be great

Thanks in advance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey, don't listen to that guy...I've never been in your situation, but I'm interested in what advice people will have for this.
 
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i had this situation once. I just fluffed talk some (asked some background questions) and then asked if she wanted to get coffee later in the week.

Boy, did i wish I saw her before I made the call. Go somewhere where you could bail within 15-30 minutes if you have to.
 
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Coolage is right if you do meet up organize with a friend 1st and tell him to call you at around the time your supposed to met her so if you are meant to meet her at 1:00pm get your friend to call at 1:15PM. So if she’s an ugly b***h you can just say "OMG WHAT HES IN HOSPITAL IL BE RIGHT THERE" and get out of there without hurting any feelings.

As for the call JUSTR CALL HER it may be hard but believe that the second you say hello you will start talking about something but its true that’s how it happens. If you want to rehearse everything how are you going to talk to a girl you meet face to face in real life. But because im a good guy ill give you a little intro say:

You: Hey How are you (her name) this is (your name), (your friends name) gave me your number.

Her: Oh I was wandering when you would call.

You: I been busy lately

Her: Doing what?

From here you could do many things that will lead to convo. Throw in some mysterious and c&f make sure the call is short 5 min max and organize to hookup for coffee or whatever when YOUR free. That’s it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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