help with being interupted

[apitt]

Hey, I know this is my first post but I just want to say first that this is a great site.

Anyway I have been talking to this girl after class these last few weeks and whenever we are walking through the hall, there will always be other guys, talking to her. This is fine except for the fact that all her attention is focused from me to them and I feel like my value is lowered because of this.
Do you guys have any tips for how to deal with other guys who talk to her, without me being interupted by them or being rude to them.

Thanks

 

[(JJ)]

project! be loud and confident so she doesnt WANT them to interrupt her amazing conversation with you! come on now!

 

[apitt]

Thanks bro, I'll make sure that I am louder than I usually am the next time I speak to her.

 

[Groovy]

Not loud... Simply control the frame!

YOU rule the conversation, YOU make it going on, YOU make the topics, you know? D) The pressure is sort of on her, and she WANTS to talk to you! SHE is entering YOUR reality, not you in hers.

Your frame is weak, that's why it's being broken all the time. Having a stronger frame causes more pressure, if you know what I mean. I can't explain it well, I hope you have a general idea.

I don't mean pressure her, just make her more interrested, in a way that the ball isn't always on your court, and that you're not always seeking her approval, but instead you slightly show a higher value.

Talking loud may be a way to do that, but it doesn't seem the way to control the frame.

 

[SomethingClever]

I suggest talking to other girls. Next time you guys walk around, say hi to all the girls you know, and try to have small talk with them while you're with her. That'll show her