"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help With a Girl!!!!

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CaliGuyInLondon

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Hey guys, so there's this girl I'm kinda into. I had a class with her about a year and a half ago and talked to her a bit but it was whatever. At the time I thought she was hot but didn't really do anything cuz I was workin on another girl.

Anyway, so recently I randomly started thinkin about her again and was like damn I should start workin on that. I wasn't really sure how to approach it since I don't have any classes with her and never really see her at any of the same parties I go to. I added her on facebook back in the day but I didn't want to just randomyl start talkin to her facebook after not talkin to her in real life for like a year and a half.

Last night we were playin intramural sports at my school and my team played her team. We were kind of markin each other the whole time and we like both kinda made contact a bit and played in the same area as each other and congratulated each other at the end and all that B.S.

SO I wanna talk to her and ask her out but I literally never see her hardly on campus or anywhere. How should I go about this? Should I facebook her and be like whats up last night was cool, or what? ANy ideas???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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just hit her up and say something along the lines of "i knew you looked familiar from somewhere" and ask her how things are. if she is interested, she'll respond back appropriately.
 
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If there's really no chance to get in touch with her other than via facebook, that's the route you have to take. Online/e-mail/text is a weak form of communication but if the alternative is not being able to contact her again it's better than doing nothing. As you have this "natural" reason to suddenly contact her (last night's sports game) then strike while the iron is hot.

But try to convert it into a meet up or getting her number sooner rather than later, instead of going to and fro online for ages. If you can execute it, use a bit of ****y/funny in your initial message - maybe some teasing (perhaps something about the game or the marking) but nothing overboard.
 
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