"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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help with a girl

Slippery Sam

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so i know this girl i met at camp and we do not live close at all. i rele want to meet up with her again sometime and i am patient enough to do so, and she told me she feels the same way. i do not want the relationship to become boring and just us talking whenever we see each other online, so i was wondering should i not im her when i see that she is on aim or something so she does it first, or should i start up a chat every now and then? also i would like some tips on how to make a good facebook that shows DHVs
thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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true romance

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give her a call..speak on the phone. flirt, funny, tell her good stories..etc

For facebook and IM..keep in moderation, wouldn't use this too much

don't stay too long on the phone 10 min max and always end the conversation..keep her wanting you more.

Now go out and live your life..find other girls closer to your house.
 

Axcell

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LTR's hardly work in high school, find a girl who lives close to you.
Instant messengers/phones should only be used as tools to contact a girl to make plans to see each other in person.
 

Slippery Sam

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well, i kno that aim stuff is supposed to b like that, but i when i met her i tried to use everything i knew about being a DJ that i learned from this site, and yes it worked out extremely well. not to brag or anything but we did get "really" close on the last day and for me thats a major improvement in my game so i want to keep this goin
 

SinJester

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MEET HER IN PERSON

Relationships starting on or based on online chat DONT WORK OUT. They should only be used as a tool for comfort after she is attracted to you in person.

Ok I think I read your story wrong, but id it's a long distace relationshop you should really consider if that's what you want. I don't really see the point if you can barely ever see her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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