"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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help with a girl

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ok well theres this girl (very cloese friends says i am one of the only people she can trust) and well she has a bf, but the thing is whenever i go to talk to any other girls and she sees me she always buts in and steals me away(AT SCHOOL WHEN TEHRE STILL WAS SCHOOL)


i havnt talked to her about yet


why?

btw she also talks to me each day these days...

why?



we havnt seen eachother for two months now

i am in highschool school strats back in 2 weeks

btw, im growing to like her more each day, what should i do :]
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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clean up your post...
 
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