"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help With A Bulking Up Routine With My "Ghetto" Multigym (A 50lbs Concrete Block!)

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Heya, just wondered if some of the more experienced guys here could help me out.

As i'm too tight to go to the gym I got my hands on a 50lbs concrete building block, and am trying to come up with a (relatively) safe and efficient routine to use with it.

I'm 133lbs and 6'1" at the moment and so i understand a heavier weight would be more appropriate for my Bulking Up (I could prolly get my hands on another if that's best).

At the moment i'm bench pressing with it (not the safest thing to do), and also doing push ups with it rested on my chest, any other advice?

Thanks, Brainfreeze
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thanks for the help guys.

man, I Just did that routine you posted diesel, even though i couldnt manage too many reps and I feel absolutely terrible.. but thats the desired effect, right? ;)

i'm going to continue with that routine every 3 days or so as advised in the bulking up guide, cheers again!

oh yeah i consider myself good looking so i don;t think i'll risk lifting that thing above my head.. :D

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