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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Help! When cold approaching, what conversation methods do you use?

d8k1n6d9l6

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Hey guys,

I'm excited to start cold approaching women. However, I'm a complete newbie at this.

How do you guys start off the conversation when you approach a woman? I'm having trouble coming up with something that doesn't seem unnatural or awkward.

Thanks.
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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Harry Wilmington

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Hey there! Welcome to the boards! So.... I have a podcast, and I just interviewed someone last week about the art of doing cold approaches. It's been one of the most downloaded podcasts I've done, and it's got some really GREAT insights that could help you out. Go ahead and take a listen HERE!
 

skinnyguy

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Harry Wilmington is a great resource, listen to what he says. Also I'd recommend not doing interview style questions.
 
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