"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help! When cold approaching, what conversation methods do you use?

d8k1n6d9l6

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Hey guys,

I'm excited to start cold approaching women. However, I'm a complete newbie at this.

How do you guys start off the conversation when you approach a woman? I'm having trouble coming up with something that doesn't seem unnatural or awkward.

Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Harry Wilmington

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Hey there! Welcome to the boards! So.... I have a podcast, and I just interviewed someone last week about the art of doing cold approaches. It's been one of the most downloaded podcasts I've done, and it's got some really GREAT insights that could help you out. Go ahead and take a listen HERE!
 

skinnyguy

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Harry Wilmington is a great resource, listen to what he says. Also I'd recommend not doing interview style questions.
 
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