"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help, what do I do in this situation.

Dhoulmagus

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K, I asked that girl to hang out again, and some bs happened. I simplified it due to fear of her googling this lol. Some girl I knew snitched on me. I was drunk and just asked her if she knew the girl.

me:haha we should hang out again
her: Yes we need to again. I heard you were asking about me yesterday
me: how?
her: My roommates friend said she met you
me: Oh, small world lol
her: What were you saying about me :)
me: idk, but I'm sure it wasn't a big deal lol
her: haha well I was just wondering
me: wonder less lol
The rest is bullshvt lol. Do I technically have a second date and is it over because of that one girl?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I never finalized the date cause i fell asleep and was last night lol
 

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GotED? said:
She is into you or else she wouldn't care about what your perception of her is.
^This. Plus she was being a bit playful with the smiley face. You could have been a little playful back, but if you didn't, it's not a big deal.

It also sounds like she is open to another date. But you need to suggest a date/time/place.
 

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Mike32ct said:
^This. Plus she was being a bit playful with the smiley face. You could have been a little playful back, but if you didn't, it's not a big deal.

It also sounds like she is open to another date. But you need to suggest a date/time/place.
I fell asleep lol, getting owned by school and work
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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