"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help, what do I do in this situation.

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K, I asked that girl to hang out again, and some bs happened. I simplified it due to fear of her googling this lol. Some girl I knew snitched on me. I was drunk and just asked her if she knew the girl.

me:haha we should hang out again
her: Yes we need to again. I heard you were asking about me yesterday
me: how?
her: My roommates friend said she met you
me: Oh, small world lol
her: What were you saying about me :)
me: idk, but I'm sure it wasn't a big deal lol
her: haha well I was just wondering
me: wonder less lol
The rest is bullshvt lol. Do I technically have a second date and is it over because of that one girl?
 

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I never finalized the date cause i fell asleep and was last night lol
 
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GotED? said:
She is into you or else she wouldn't care about what your perception of her is.
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^This. Plus she was being a bit playful with the smiley face. You could have been a little playful back, but if you didn't, it's not a big deal.

It also sounds like she is open to another date. But you need to suggest a date/time/place.
 
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Mike32ct said:
^This. Plus she was being a bit playful with the smiley face. You could have been a little playful back, but if you didn't, it's not a big deal.

It also sounds like she is open to another date. But you need to suggest a date/time/place.
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I fell asleep lol, getting owned by school and work
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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