"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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avrilishot

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well I have a bad situation, the thing is Ive mostly been home this whole summer. And so its hard for me to talk to girls and stuff.

And I want to do this boot camp but the thing is I cant really go anywhere. Because I dont have a car to drive so im basically stuck at home with my parents.

plus when I do go out somewhere im stuck being with my parents, I basically have to hang out with them.

Also I only get out of the house maybe 3 times a week.

so my question is how can I become a DJ when im stuck at home?

and should I wait later to do the boot camp or what?



please help thanks.

:)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BigMike

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No buses or sidewalks where you live?

Why cant you do the Bootcamp on foot? I dont get this.

How old are you? When I was 15-17 I would go after chicks in front of my dad, he just laughed...
 

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no

no avrili this should NOT be a weird situation, I posted some quality ****, and you said it was good, well I know its ****ing good, its great, but its not just a story mang, you HAVE TO ACT ON what Ive Ive given you, read and apply, and as the great Mega once said :cool: .... "if you treat that broad like shes some angelic figure thats impossible to talk to your going nowhere but down", those broads are going to run like they smell the worst odor imaginable.... YOU!:woo: .... Now please take a look at my stuff once more, and ACT ON IT, like I said before, its not just there to look pretty :eek: ...

get movin I believe in you, need any advice? assurance? come back and ask, as a matter of fact let us all know how you progress :cool:
 

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how can I become a DJ when im stuck at home?
Simple. You can't.

But not to waste all your time I recommend reading stuff a lot and maybe trying to talk to girls online. Yeah, internet dating is pretty bad usually but if its your only chance to communicate with real girls its better than nothing.
 

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IRONMAN, your reply doesn't even relate to this. The guy's stuck at home.

avrili do you have any friends with cars? If you do tell them to get out and do something and pick you up while they're at it, spot them a bit for the gas money as well. That'd be the only suggestion if you don't have any type of public transit or if you're too far away to walk anywhere.

Not everyone here lives in a city where they can easily get anywhere they need to by walking, and even still some places really don't have buses that run everywhere.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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avrilishot

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Originally posted by TACH
IRONMAN, your reply doesn't even relate to this. The guy's stuck at home.

avrili do you have any friends with cars? If you do tell them to get out and do something and pick you up while they're at it, spot them a bit for the gas money as well. That'd be the only suggestion if you don't have any type of public transit or if you're too far away to walk anywhere.

Not everyone here lives in a city where they can easily get anywhere they need to by walking, and even still some places really don't have buses that run everywhere.

Well I do have friends but none have cars. And I do walk the sidewalk to see if I can find chicks but no luck none walk where I live.

so im screwed. And also the closest mall/store is like 20 min away.


what would u do?
 

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or maybe it does

help weird situation
well I have a bad situation, the thing is Ive mostly been home this whole summer. And so its hard for me to talk to girls and stuff.- what I actually concentrated on




maybe it does tach :eek: .... avrili a don juan, or a player if you will, should obviously have a very sharp mind, now cmon now, your saying there is no possible way to get out of your house? RUBBISH :woo: .... find a way, how in the world could that be impossible? like I posted before, take a look at my posts and ACT, avrili, MOVE, I believe ;)
 

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Originally posted by avrilishot
Well I do have friends but none have cars. And I do walk the sidewalk to see if I can find chicks but no luck none walk where I live.

so im screwed. And also the closest mall/store is like 20 min away.


what would u do?
i'd jog my ass over to the mall if I were you. 20 minutes is not far at the slightest bit, especially taking into account the problems you are encountering and the answers going to the mall can bring to your issues.

get off your lazy ass and do something about your problem, hell... if you can't travel 20 minutes to a mall, get a job and save up for a car. Where there's a will, theres a way (given that there isn't a severe case of ADHD getting in your way)
 

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i'd jog my ass over to the mall if I were you. 20 minutes is not far at the slightest bit, especially taking into account the problems you are encountering and the answers going to the mall can bring to your issues.

let it sink in avrili ;) ..... as for Hit, touche :cool:
 
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