"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HELP! W/ Girlfriend Hanging out With EX-Boyfriend!

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UPDATE: Okay so I took your guys advice and broke off a deep two year relationship with a girl I was truly in love with. It's very hard... but I know i'm right in this situation... she keeps calling me and when I pick up... she tries to act like everything is okay and nothing is wrong... then she cries, begs for forgiveness and tells me how much she needs me. This is hard... i told her it's over... and she is not accepting it really... she's going to continue to call me and try to get back with me. but i will ignore her the best i can. I think i have found my balls. Thanks for all teh advice guys... keep them coming because it aint over yet!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jophil28 said:
You are an idiot. Smart guys do not get in triangles. You tolerated this nonsense from her for far too long. Dump her. She is cheating.
co-sign
 

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Be sure to tell her that she can come 'hang out and smoke pot' when she gets her next boyfriend. Lol.

You did the right thing. Now, STICK TO YOUR GUNS! Easier said than done I know. Welcome to 'horaholics anonymous,' and we're your support group. Go find some rebound pvssy, stat!

I think Im gonna have to change my name now!
 

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Had to do it. It was too cool of a name.
 

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If you don't like what she's saying when you pick up the phone, stop picking up the phone. Bar the number, cut all contact and begone! Trust me, it will be easier for you in the long run too, and if you keep strong you will look back in a year and shake your head in wonder that you even thought of putting up with this sort of sh1t.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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whether she cheats on you or not IS NOT the problem here

read what i said again ^^^^


the problem is that despite you not wanting her to stay over there
she STILL does it continually, completely disregarding your relationship.
 
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