"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help Trying to get this girl out, don't know her very well and she's on my facebook.

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So I know this girl through friends friends friends not really formally introduced so more of an acquaintance. I want to take her out. Were somehow facebook friends. So I took the chance and messaged her.

ME:

Happy birthday gorgeous! (this isn't AFC! At least I hope not. It has worked before )

Make it good.

HER:

hey thanks! it was very good:)

ME:

That wild huh? haha, good to hear Jane.

So how's the professor doing?

HER:

professor?? more liek pre school teacher... good good and yourself?

I'VE GOT NOTHING FROM HERE, NEED SOMETHING ****Y AND FUNNY. THINKING OF USING THE FACT THAT SHE'S ONE OF THE FEW IN OUR COMMUNITY (SOUTH ASIANS IN THE PHILIPPINES) THAT LIVES IN MY AREA, JUST DON'T KNOW THE BEST WAY TO PUT IT.

Thanks in advance!

This site has done wonders for me, I hope it has for you guys as well, I love my life and the women are suddenly everywhere. Now I just need to work on "facebook game".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Right chap. When you actually do take her out you can't pause time, log on to a computer and then ask for advice one what to say next in the conversation. Not trying to patronise you, just clarify.

Facebook is just a medium like MSN messenger and the telephone. Granted there are different levels of response times between a live conversation and a messaging service. The issue is, if you can't think of anything to say after something like two hours, then how stupid do you think you'll come across in a face to face conversation.

Don't ask for a canned line. If you must, ask on how to improve your conversation skills or something similar.
 

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AmpleReason said:
Right chap. When you actually do take her out you can't pause time, log on to a computer and then ask for advice one what to say next in the conversation. Not trying to patronise you, just clarify.

Facebook is just a medium like MSN messenger and the telephone. Granted there are different levels of response times between a live conversation and a messaging service. The issue is, if you can't think of anything to say after something like two hours, then how stupid do you think you'll come across in a face to face conversation.

Don't ask for a canned line. If you must, ask on how to improve your conversation skills or something similar.

I have no issues with regard to live conversation, that is actually my specialty. In fact, I would prefer she be in front of me right now so I can do my thing and take her out.

The problem with facebook is there is no emotion involved. No eye contact, no touching, and teasing can't be timed to perfection. This is why I feel like there is far more room for error with respect to facebook. Because there's time to analyze, the person you're messaging with will analyze every word you say from every angle.

I'm not asking for a canned line, I'm asking for direction.
 

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Stick an obvious typo in somewhere and say what you want. It'll look like you've rushed it so they won't analyze it too much (hopefully you have got better things to do than think of a reply for 2 hours and are a bit more spontaneous). I like doimg that a lot.
 

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How's this for a response???

HER: professor?? more liek pre school teacher... good good and yourself?


MY RESPONSE: You know we can semi relate, I teach tennis to little kids on the weekends, except not hardcore strict like I think you are.. haha, it's good fun, and the ladies somehow believe that it brings out a sensitive side so can't complain really.. haha.

Now we'll have to get together for a coffee, to discuss "trade secrets" and all.. You live in the Pasig area as well yeah??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i would just ask her sum basic questions (major,her interest, etc.) then get the number
 

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My facebook game is next to non-existant, but why don't you just plow for a bit, then say.

"This isn't working, you/I can't see/hear me _______ at such___________. We need to discuss this over coffee/rollerblading/ufo tracking. what's better? ___ or _____" (Choose 2 days, give her option, if she says neither but counter offers and sounds legit then say you'll have to shuffle some errands but you can chill for a bit)

There, that's what Aragon would do. Whether it would work or not is another thing. Though it has worked well for me on the phone.
 

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Aragon034 said:
My facebook game is next to non-existant, but why don't you just plow for a bit, then say.

"This isn't working, you/I can't see/hear me _______ at such___________. We need to discuss this over coffee/rollerblading/ufo tracking. what's better? ___ or _____" (Choose 2 days, give her option, if she says neither but counter offers and sounds legit then say you'll have to shuffle some errands but you can chill for a bit)

There, that's what Aragon would do. Whether it would work or not is another thing. Though it has worked well for me on the phone.

This is nice bro.

Although I used the example I posted above.

I think I say haha too ****ing much. ****.
 

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dav27 said:
Stick an obvious typo in somewhere and say what you want. It'll look like you've rushed it so they won't analyze it too much (hopefully you have got better things to do than think of a reply for 2 hours and are a bit more spontaneous). I like doimg that a lot.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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