help translating twisted ********?

[Don Octavio de Flores]

So 2 months ago I started on a weekly class and I got to know this girl. She's 24 and was married at the time.

Two weeks ago we were talking casually (we'd hardly talked before) and she asks me to "sit closer", later I learned she had split (for good). Kino and eye contact.

Last weekend she phoned me twice to call me up for two gatherings of our classmates I'd otherwise not know about. We talked quite a lot, light kino, plenty of eye contact, but I wasn't really sure she was interested and didn't have a chance to take her to a quieter place.

Monday we started exchanging emails, about 10 a day, mostly fluff talk, until yesterday she asked whether I had a girlfriend, to which I replied "no". Sure interest sign I thought. Then today she mentioned her ex so I asked if she was ready to move on and start fresh.

Then I got an email full of undecypherable ********.

Below I'll transcribe the most interesting parts...

On one hand I don't want to see him again, while on the other it was somewhat traumatic so I'm not really in the mood for a serious relationship with someone else... But I'm not too sure since I also miss that "special someone"... So, yes, I'm ready to move on, but I don't know if I want to do so now, and I haven't met anyone yet so it's hard to say.

How twisted! Can anyone make sense of that?

My own opinion is that she's interested, and can't say so directly but doesn't want to close the door on me hence the twisted email... Am I completely off?

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

IMO this just comes down to: "Dude, I like you, you have an opening, use it but don't expect anything serious but boy can we have some fun if you just grab your balls"....

 

[Player_Supreme]

My own opinion is that she's interested, and can't say so directly but doesn't want to close the door on me hence the twisted email... Am I completely off?

NO!

 

[ScrewIt]

rebound

it's possible you're just rebound for the aftermath of the break-up, in short just using you to raise her self-esteem.

 

[jungleman pete]

edited.

 

[SLICK-RIC]

REBOUNDING LIKE A MO-FO...

SOUNDS LIKE THIS GIRL HAS STRONG ATTRACTIONS FOR YOU...SEEMS LIKE U DID A GOOD JOB WITH KEEPING HER I.L. HIGH....
SHES BOUNCING LIKE A MO FO RIGHT NOW AND IS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO HAVE A GOOD TIME WITH AND MAYBE GET HER MIND OFF THIS DUDE....GO ALONG AND ENJOY THE RIDE, JUST DONT GET CAUGHT UP IN HER MESS CAUSE SHE SOUNDS LIKE SHES NEEDS SO TIME TO SORT HERSELF OUT....BE COOL....!!!

 

[Don Octavio de Flores]

Thanks guys, you were a great help.

I'm still a little confused since she keeps saying she's "not one of those girls who have a different boyfriend each week" but oh well, we'll see what happens.

 

[NewMan]

I'm still a little confused since she keeps saying she's "not one of those girls who have a different boyfriend each week" but oh well, we'll see what happens.



She;s basically letting you know she doesn't sleep around. i.e. she wants someone around now - to ease the pain - to help her through this, to comfort her - but she doesn't want anything serious - and she doesn't want to sleep around with a bunch of guys she doesn';t know.


What this translates to -is that you get to have some serious fun with this girl - great sex, hanging out with a woman who want's to get over an ex.

No strings attached.

This is going to be some serious fun for you.

Just don't come on heavy or needy.

Be cool - see her when she wants to see you - and just know that nothing more will ever happen between the 2 of you. Sometime in the future she's going to end this - but in the meantime HAVE FUN.