"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help Throwing Party

Dapper Swindler

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Hey, I've been out of the whole DJ mentality for the last few months because of work and girlfriend. I've mostly lost contact with my friends and am not very used to socializing with people so much anymore. I thought a good way to get back in the swing of things and reestabslih myself in social circles would be to throw a party.

I'm thinking of having it next Friday and having it Mardi Gras themed.

Keep these things in mind:

I'll be having it at my apartment which can't hold any more than 13 people so it will be relatively small.

The people I'll be inviting will be people I don't know very well or have lost contact with. So I don't want to plan anything too outrageous.

The people that will be coming are not big partiers. So again, nothing too outrageous. (This includes the whole bead thing. Not that I would be against it, but I'm not going to be the first to suggest it)

My "girlfriend" will be there. And while I don't intend on marrying her, I don't want to do anything to create problems with that.

The average age of everyone there will be about 21 or 22

I'm planning on just inviting about everyone who I have still listed on my phone. Most probably won't come, but since I can only hold about 13 people that should work out.

I'm planning on finding 2 or 3 mixed drink recipes in addition to supplying plenty of beer. Probably food too, any suggestions?

The only decent party game I can find is beer pong. What else might be a good game for a group of strangers?

Should I provide some decorations?

What else would you suggest to make this party a hit?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Julian

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You forgot music, the most important thing next to girls and alcohol.
 

Dapper Swindler

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Oh right, good idea. I'm not very good with music. Do you have any suggestions?
 

Ice Cold

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1) Booze - lower inhibitions. Everybody drinks!

2) Contest/game - social pressure to dance, touch, kino... etc...

3) pictures - to touch/kino again...

4) sexual truth/dare

Only works with lots of single attractive people.
 
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